Dating Before Marriage #6

 Dating before marriage has become a common practice to try to get to know someone. This period of courtship allows individuals to get to know each other better, exploring shared interests, values, and compatibility. At least this is how it should be. It provides an opportunity to build a strong emotional connection. Understanding each other's strengths and weaknesses. Dating helps young adults to develop essential communication and problem-solving skills, crucial for a successful marriage. It allows couples to experience challenges and joys together, enabling them to assess their ability to handle various situations as a team.

However, it is vital to approach dating with maturity and respect, maintaining personal boundaries and values. While dating can be a learning experience. It does not always lead to marriage. Rather, dating before marriage should be seen as a valuable time for growth and self-discovery, laying the foundation for a stronger and more fulfilling lifelong partnership.

What I like about this topic is we discussed the dos and don’ts for dates. There are plenty of times we see dating as being in someone’s presentence 24/7. So, naturally we think we know them. It is known that people often jump to physical touch. Which most of the time can lead to heart break. Do not get me wrong, one of my strongest love languages is quality time. At the same time, I can do with some space.

A perfect example of this are my friends who recently got engaged. They don’t spend a ton of time together. In the sense, they sometimes go days without having to see each other because they’re busy college students. Once they do get that time together, they go on creative dates. These dates allow them to see each other in a different light. You know make a pro and cons list.

Cohabiting before marriage has been a subject of considerable debate. Cohabitation may seem like a practical step to take before tying the knot, allowing partners to test their compatibility and work out potential issues. However, there are several concerns associated with this practice that warrant careful consideration.

Cohabiting before marriage can lead to a lack of commitment and a casual approach to relationships. Without the binding commitment of marriage, partners may find it easier to walk away when faced with challenges, leading to a higher likelihood of breakups and emotional distress. Growing up where this is recommended. I have seen firsthand the result of treating something so sacred. Being treated casually. No one wins in the end.

Studies have shown that cohabiting couples are more prone to experience financial instability and lower levels of overall satisfaction in their relationships compared to married couples.

Furthermore, cohabiting couples may encounter societal pressures and disapproval from family and friends, which can add strain to their relationship. This can lead to feelings of insecurity and isolation, impacting their emotional well-being.

Finally, cohabitation can inadvertently create an environment where personal growth and individual development take a backseat. Couples might focus on their day-to-day cohabiting routines instead of actively nurturing their relationship and working towards mutual goals.

While cohabiting before marriage may seem like a logical step towards commitment, the potential drawbacks suggest that it may not be the best choice for everyone. It is essential for couples to carefully consider what they are putting at risk, and how they want their relationship to work. Open communication and understanding between partners are vital to ensuring a healthy and successful relationship, whether married or not.

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